Is a partner forgetting to pay bills, do his/her share of the chores, or "ignoring" the to-do list you made for them? Perhaps the anger you feel towards a "lazy" partner is unfounded. A partner with A.D.H.D. may be simply overwhelmed by lists or a messy house. Understanding that a partner has this disorder may lead to simple steps that not only save a relationship, but help it thrive. Read more.