Ilana Kukoff calls marriage a tricky business as she discusses the need for husbands and wives to make deposits into a "relational bank account." She discusses how this account consists of all the emotions and interactions in a relationship. Sometimes we make withdrawals by being ornery, but those withdrawals are less painful when the account is full of positives such as hugs, expressing gratitude, and doing other things to show care for a partner.

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