This brief explains the meaning of trust, the need for trust, and the origins and development of trust. Theories on the origins of interpersonal trust are explored, including the individual propensity to trust, dimensions of trustworthy behavior and levels of trust development. The difference between calculus-based trust (CBT) relationships and the more trusting identification-based trust […]
Sixteen of the top scholars on family life have re-issued a joint report on the importance of marriage. First released in 2002, the newly revised edition highlights five new themes in marriage-related research. Since 1960, the proportion of children who do not live with their own two parents has risen sharply–from 19.4% to 42.3% in […]
This exercise will help couples look ahead and assess the growth potential of their relationship. It should enable them to work on positive prospects for future planning and avoid, if possible, negative ones. Each person responds to the questions independently and then come together to discuss, evaluate and plan for their future. (Author abstract modified)
Most people believe they are good listeners without considering the important differences between hearing and listening. The ability to hear is typically innate, but the ability to listen well is a skill that must be developed and practiced. Listening means paying attention and making a conscious effort to process what you hear. It is one […]
Marital couples are urged to examine their marriage by taking a 15-question quiz that is based on a ten-week couple counseling program. The questions address: communication, flirting, making time for each other, fighting, confidentiality, sex, handling disagreements, household duties, and emotional support. Recommendations are provided based on quiz results.
This fact sheet discusses the importance of positive communication in the marital relationship. It provides the following tips for expressing negative feelings constructively: don’t exaggerate, don’t mind read, use more “”I”” statements and less “”you”” statements, and don’t generalize. Advice is also given for expressing positive feelings without inhibition, listening to negative feelings openly, and […]
This report documents the results of implementation research in three of the Office of Child Support Enforcement Community Healthy Marriage Initiative (CHMI) pioneer sites: Boston, Massachusetts, Jacksonville, Florida, and Chicago, Illinois. It focuses on the three initiatives? roles in supporting healthy marriage and child support activities and presents a description and analysis of the early […]
This fact sheet discusses the challenges of becoming a new parent and recommends strategies fathers can use to help young mothers and older mothers cope with the transition to parenthood. The importance of communication between a couple and establishing boundaries with grandparents are addressed, as well as the need for fathers to be emotionally responsive […]
This research brief describes rates of health care coverage for married- and single-parent families with children under age 18, a key target population of both marriage and health care coverage initiatives. Drawing on nationally representative data from the Current Population Survey (CPS), the brief reports differences in rates of health care coverage by marital status […]
New parents make a lot of preparations when a baby is on the way. Some of the things couples have to consider are where the baby will sleep and who will stay home with the baby. With these and other preparations, many couples don't prepare for the change that the baby will have on their […]