Modern marriage has undergone a revolution. Never before have we wanted so much from our relationships–and yet we lack the skills to succeed. Today’s women want more emotional closeness than many men have been raised to deliver, leaving both sexes feeling frustrated and unheard.

In this revolutionary book, distinguished therapist Terry Real shows women and men how to master the new rules of twenty-first-century marriage by offering them a set of effective tools with which they can create the truly intimate relationship they desire and deserve. He identifies five non-starters to avoid and shares practical strategies for bringing honesty, passion, and joy to even the most difficult relationship. With this program you’ll discover how to

– identify and articulate your wants and needs
– listen well and respond generously
– set limits, and stand up for yourself
– embrace and appreciate what you have
– know when to seek outside help

This generation wants to be more than companions. We want to be lovers and friends. The New Rules of Marriage shows us how to fulfill this courageous and uncompromising new vision, turning bad relationships into good ones and good ones into great ones. (Author abstract)