A couple’s intimacy involves both an emotional openness and a physical closeness. Communication – a key to doing anything well – also allows us to learn, better understand, and execute the caring behaviors your partner needs or desires. Likewise, skillful, sincere, respectfuly communication provides your best chance for having your needs understood and met in a loving way. Therefore, it’s imperative that you know what your needs are and learn how to tell your partner in a manner that he or she can understand. (Author abstract)