This report presents the findings of three studies on distressed couples in Ireland. The first study presents a sample of demographic and problem-definition statistics drawn from a large database of approximately 2,000 cases accumulated over an 8-year period. For the sample of 2,000 cases, broad demographic categories, problem-focused categories, and counseling approach categories were recorded. Findings indicate those who use the services of a marriage counseling agency are varied in terms of age, marital status, income level, and their goal is seeking help. Results also indicate a high level of emotional crisis experienced by couples and individuals who seek assistance with relationships, a drinking problem in 25% of all clients, counseling is a service provided predominantly by women and is a service used predominantly by women, and many people feel trapped in relationships, and this experience can be emotionally demoralizing over many years. The second study explored the psychological architecture of distressed marriages (n=340) by examining the potential for developing a psychological-systemic classification of such marriages. The research found that spouses with particular personality styles, as assessed using a structural analysis of social behavior, are more likely to be paired together. Profiles of the different types of pairing are provided. The final study used a qualitative methodology to review the case-note material of 400 couples who presented for marital therapy. The study found couples could be defined at two different levels. Results from the study support the need for counseling assessments to include assessments of emotional safety, interpersonal justice, and psychological positioning. Counseling implications for each of the studies are discussed. Numerous references.