In this 78 minute DVD an African American couple work through a single, difficult problem: the stress on their relationship caused by “”ex’s.”” As they work out a creative solution the complexities of the problem are demonstrated while they use Relationship Enhancement skills. These skills include: showing understanding (empathy), expression, discussion, problem solving, self-change, helping others change, coaching, conflict management, generalization, and maintenance. The DVD highlights how the couple comes to an agreement, works out the details, follows up with self-change, and practices how to change bad habits.