Most people think that poor communication is the reason why so many relationships end, but it’s actually the way we learn to think about our partners and our problems that undermines trust, erodes intimacy, and cripples communication. In Why Can’t You Read My Mind?, psychologist Jeffrey Bernstein reveals the nine toxic thought patterns at work in virtually every initmate relationship, and shows you how the distorted, negative, exaggerated thoughts you and your partner may have about each other can destroy the love you share. (Author abstract)