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Holiday Traditions

Creating and maintaining holiday traditions are far more important to children than most parents realize. Family traditions provide enjoyment that extends far beyond the moment for those who participate; family traditions help define a family. Read more.

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10 Jan
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Housekeepers Get to Keep the House, the Wife, and the Kids

The study looking at 3,500 British couples after the birth of their first child, found that as husbands helped with household tasks, shopping, and childcare there was a lower incidence of divorce. These findings may trump previous theories that increases in divorce rates which began in the early 1960s were due to increases in the […]

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10 Jan
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Finding Bliss After the Honeymoon

A couple's expectations for what married life is supposed to be like play a big role in how well and happily they will adjust. Research shows that couples who are happily married disagree as much as those who divorce. The difference is that happily married couples are the ones who recognize that disagreeing about money, […]

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10 Jan
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Communication Breakdown

Steven Stosny PhD suggests that it couples' don't have communication problems, but connection problems. People usually shut out their partners because they feel like their partner does not care about them or their feelings; they shut down in order to deaden the pain of disconnection. Before fighting, be aware that you must convey value to […]

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10 Jan
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How to Fight Right

A partner can communicate a problem with another in a healthy way using listening and response methods OR one can use unhealthy styles such as eye rolling or making insults. When partners use a disagreement as an opportunity to grow closer as a couple they learn that differences can actually help a marriage thrive. Read […]

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10 Jan
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Marriage Maintenance Plans

In her blog, Tara Parker Pope introduces an idea to "pre-empt marital strife" as she describes some of the research now taking place in marital maintenance. She cites the work of Dr. James V. Cordova who is researching the benefits of annual marriage checkups. Preliminary findings show that these checkups can increase the quality of […]

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10 Jan
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Let’s Try Things Out for 10 Years

Lyndon and Lady Bird Johnson met, were engaged, and were married within a four month period in 1934, while Prince William and Kate Middleton dated for nine years before becoming engaged. Researchers suggest numerous reasons that couples are putting off marriage include education, finances, and wanting to work out problems before committing. Read more.

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10 Jan
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“You Make Me Sick! Seriously, I’m Physically Ill!”

Hostile and distressing interactions with a spouse are linked to problems with a partner's physical health. Learning skills such as how to argue in a healthy way, accepting partners for whom they are, not yelling at yellers, limit venting to others about your relational problems and recalling the lessons from happy times can not only […]

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10 Jan
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The Marital Bank Bailout

Ilana Kukoff calls marriage a tricky business as she discusses the need for husbands and wives to make deposits into a "relational bank account." She discusses how this account consists of all the emotions and interactions in a relationship. Sometimes we make withdrawals by being ornery, but those withdrawals are less painful when the account […]

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10 Jan
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Lord of the Prom

Specific types of male movement may indicate genetic fitness that attracts females. Using motion-capture data similar to what was used in the movie "Avatar," Dr. Nick Neave and colleagues explored how the range, variety, and types of movement made by men dancing determined what was attractive to females. Read more.

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